Welcome to Following the Whispers blog
Thank you so much for taking the time to visit. Hope you enjoy your stay. I blog here whenever I feel the need. This blog was created at the time my memoir came out, in February, 2009. Its motto was: creating a life of inner peace and self-acceptance from the depths of despair. Now, my focus is sharing this journey we call life.
“Only one thing is more frightening than speaking your truth, and that is not speaking it.” Naomi Wolf
“We are called human beings, not human doings.” Wes Nisker, Buddhist teacher
“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs…(And) if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly.” Theodore Roosevelt
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
Thanks for stopping by today. So sorry, but I'm not here. I'm with my hubby on a wonderful adventure. I will post pics and stories when I return. Till then, be well and...
Monday, September 16, 2013
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Tuesday, September 10, 2013
I met my current hubby when I was 46. We began traveling together almost immediately, mostly road trips to National Parks, trips to Florida to see my folks, and things like that. But when I was going to turn 50 (yikes, 14 years ago), we went to Europe for my first time. It was a dream come true. I'd never thought I would get to travel, let alone go to Rome, Venice and Florence, Stonehenge, and Paris.
We have been many places since then: back to Europe on a six-week adventure that included 11 countries, mostly in Eastern Europe; an Alaskan cruise, Guatemala, a Caribbean cruise, Mexico, well, you get the idea.
This month, we are going to South Africa. We will spend 5 days in Cape Town, then 4 days on Safari at a private game reserve, then 4 days in Victoria Falls. I have always dreamed of going to Africa to see the animals, sadly many of whom are disappearing from the planet. I'm one of those people who cries when driving and I see a dead animal in the road. One of my closest friends is a wildlife biologist who works tirelessly to protect endangered species. When I look into the eyes of an animal, I see a soul.
I know there is a possibility we won't see some of the animals we hope to see, but whatever we do get to see will be such a blessing. So, I can't wait...
Monday, September 9, 2013
That made me think about where I am at 64 and where I still want to be.
In my memoir, there's a part of my story where I am driving through the Mojave Desert after yet another relationship ended and I am filled with despair and no longer want to go on, not just driving, but living. A voice whispers, "You're not done yet, Karen."
I am hearing that voice again. I am not done, even though I am slowing down. I don't have the stamina I once had. I need more down time than ever before. I've thought about the aging process a lot since I have first-hand experience caring for my aging dad and mother-in-law, until they died. I also having elderly friends I do some caregiving for.
What I've observed is that aging is a lot about coming to terms with reality. The body starts to give out. Things don't function as they used to and eventually stop functioning at all. Some things can keep functioning with medications. Others with procedures. But eventually, there will be nothing that can be done about the malfunctioning parts. We all get to make choices what to do in those cases.
So aging is about accepting limitations. And letting go of who we used to be and what we used to be able to do. I think, if we allow ourselves to, it is an opportunity to become more deeply spiritual human beings, instead of human doers. I am trying to incorporate that awareness into my life now, so that as this aging process continues, I am more and more comfortable with the limitations and losses that will most definitely come.
How about you?
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
I have a dilemma about how to categorize my manuscript. Not only is it not considered long enough to be a novel, I'm not sure what genre it fits. This makes me feel very insecure. Right now, at draft two stage, it is only 32,700 words. Most novels are a minimum of 50,000. It fits the novella requirements, but novellas are very difficult to market to agents and publishers. I did some research and discovered that Animal Farm, considered a classic novel, was only 29,000 words. So maybe mine can be considered a novel as well. Oy!
All during the several years it's taken to complete this book, I have been afraid of this stage of the journey. I am older than most of you out there who are writing and marketing their books. I don't have the drive and energy and stamina I once had. But I still want my book out there. I want it to be read. I want people to like it.
I think I just need to stop and take this one day, one step at a time. First, I will find an editor who can help me figure out how to classify the book. I don't have to worry about the rest until after that step is done.
How about you?
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
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